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The Five Elements: Personality Test Results

To learn more about the Five Elements and take the shorter version of the test for yourself, visit this link.

Summary of my elements

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Element
Score
Total Possible Score
Wood
307
325
Metal
295
325
Fire
125
325
Earth
116
325
Water
112
325

What does it mean to have a Wood element?

The Wood element is one of the five elements in Chinese philosophy and is associated with qualities such as growth, vitality, and flexibility. It represents the energy and momentum needed to achieve goals and manifest one's vision. People with a strong Wood element in their personality tend to be ambitious, visionary, and action-oriented, but can also be prone to impatience, frustration, and difficulty staying focused. Overall, the Wood element embodies qualities that are often associated with creativity, innovation, and growth.

What does it mean to have a Metal element?

The Metal element is associated with qualities such as order, structure, and precision. It represents the ability to discern what is valuable and what is not, and to focus on what is essential. People with a strong Metal element in their personality tend to be analytical, disciplined, and highly focused, but can also be prone to perfectionism, rigidity, and difficulty adapting to change. Overall, the Metal element embodies qualities that are often associated with success, achievement, and excellence.

What does it mean to be a Wood + Metal

In the context of the five elements, having a mix of Wood and Metal in your personality can give rise to certain strengths and challenges. Here are some general traits that are associated with each element, and what it could mean to have a mix of Wood and Metal:

Wood:

  • Associated with growth, expansion, and a desire to achieve goals
  • Can be assertive, decisive, and action-oriented
  • Can also be prone to impatience, stubbornness, and rigidity

Metal:

  • Associated with order, structure, and attention to detail
  • Can be analytical, disciplined, and highly focused
  • Can also be prone to perfectionism, rigidity, and a difficulty adapting to change

With a mix of Wood and Metal, you may be someone who is driven to achieve your goals, and who has the discipline and focus to work hard to make them happen. You may be assertive and decisive, but also have an eye for detail and a desire for structure and order.

At the same time, you may also be prone to rigidity and a difficulty adapting to change, especially if it conflicts with your goals or plans. You may also struggle with finding a balance between action and reflection, as the Wood element may drive you to take action quickly, while the Metal element may encourage you to analyse and plan in great detail.

It's important to remember that these are just general tendencies, and that each person's mix of elements is unique. By gaining a deeper understanding of your own personality traits and tendencies, you can learn to work with your strengths and manage your challenges in order to achieve your goals and live a fulfilling life.

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Water

Are you a Water?

Parameter
Score from 1 to 5
Tags
Sadness
2
Under stress I experience the following
Laziness
2
Under stress I experience the following
Fatigue
1
Under stress I experience the following
Depression
1
Under stress I experience the following
Hopelessness
1
Under stress I experience the following
Lack of energy
1
Under stress I experience the following
Tendency to retreat within
4
Under stress I experience the following
Indifference
1
Under stress I experience the following
Insomnia
4
Under stress I experience the following
Fear is the emotion that disables me the most.
1
In general
I’d prefer to stay at home with a good movie than go out and be sociable.
1
I am wary of people and their motives.
1
I am very introspective.
4
I often lack stamina.
1
I love naps and give them to myself whenever I can.
1
I have lots of curiosity, and I can have a childlike wonder.
3
I am often running late, but I still don’t rush.
3
In groups of people, I often keep my feelings and thoughts to myself.
4
I am OK being anonymous.
1
In class or in a group, I try to hide in the back.
1
I love reading books, newspapers, and great articles in magazines.
4
I am eager or feel driven to read or write daily.
3
Ideas, more than people, stir my soul.
5
I have brilliant ideas that stimulate others, and could change the world, but I need someone else to make them happen.
1
I have a complex inner world that can be difficult for others to understand.
2
I am fine with just a few good friends. I don’t need a huge social life.
5
I am slow to divulge my true feelings and careful of what I tell others about who I am.
3
I want to uncover truths and mysteries.
2
I yearn for meaning to this experience on Earth.
1
I am very self-reflective.
3
If I am disturbed while in a creative process, it is difficult for me to get back on track.
1
I am comfortable being a follower and not a leader.
1
When I feel “seen,” I am more loving.
1
I feel young and playful when I am loved.
1
I am persistent.
4
Above all else, I want to be loved by people.
1
I go with the flow.
1
I can get lost in the arts or creative processes.
1
I am very private.
1
Among friends, I can be very playful.
1
I have been accused of being too secretive.
1
I tend to believe that the world is a dangerous place and one needs to be careful.
1
It takes me a while to really trust someone.
2
Home is my safe haven, especially with my pajamas and popcorn.
1
When I sit, I slouch and become one with the chair.
1
When I walk, move, or dance, I flow like water.
1
I don’t love to exercise, but when I do, I prefer it to be something flowing and slow, like swimming or walking.
1
Playing games like softball works well for me because the action isn’t constant.
1
When I speak, I often drone on for a long time.
1
Sinking into isolation. It’s common for people to have a hard time reaching me.
2
I retreat deep into myself and feel resistant if people try to coax me out.
2
I can become depressed and feel that I have no purpose.
1
I lose energy easily and need to nap or sleep in order to restore it.
1
I often feel suspicious of people, and I am aware of what they haven’t done for me.
1
When I am one-on-one, I can wax on eloquently for hours.
2
I lose motivation easily.
1
I shouldn’t have to take care of me; I want someone else to do it.
1
I feel paranoid at times.
1
I suspect people and their secrets, yet I do not want my secrets exposed.
1
I feel scared a lot.
1
I feel paralyzed and frozen at times.
1
Urgency is not in my nature, and I can lose track of time.
3
I can get “icy” and be hard.
2
I am more aware of how you’re hurting me than of how I’m hurting you.
1
I dwell on the past and its pain.
1
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Wood

Are you a Wood?

Parameter
Score from 1 to 5
Tags
Exasperation
4
Under stress I experience the following
Impatience
3
Muscle tension and tightness
5
Frustration and irritation
5
Anger
5
Inability to relax
5
Eyestrain or puffy eyes
5
Resentment
4
Restlessness
5
I am assertive and clear about where I stand.
5
In general
When I have made a decision, it is very difficult to get me to change my stance.
5
I want to have full control over every aspect of my life.
5
I see goals, and I need to accomplish them.
5
I see the future and what it takes to get there.
5
I find it very difficult to not constantly focus on my vision until I succeed at it.
5
I enjoy organizing my environment.
5
I prefer structure and plans to happenstance.
5
I am obsessed with completing items on my to-do list.
5
I feel an undeniable need to stand up for people who are treated unfairly.
3
I have a purpose when I work, and I always find ways to do more.
5
I am good at setting priorities and getting them done.
5
I find it hard to relate to people who don’t tell the truth.
5
I have a reputation for being solid and dependable.
4
I like to compete, and I often feel competitive in noncompetitive situations.
5
I care about people, but I don’t overworry about hurting their feelings.
5
I am grounded in reason and facts.
5
I hate being late, and I hate when others are late. There is rarely an excuse for it.
5
I cannot stand when people waste my time.
5
I can be incredibly effective when I’m angry.
5
I have a gift for seeing the big picture when others seem to be mired in the details.
5
I need to do things my own way and always have an opinion about your way.
5
I rarely turn down a good argument or debate. Conflict doesn’t scare me.
4
I work very hard, so you’d better have a very good reason for criticizing me.
5
I am courageous and determined when I feel strongly about a cause.
5
I am fiercely independent, and I will not be pushed around.
5
I am confident in most anything I take on.
5
I have no problem stating my personal boundaries.
5
I have an indomitable will to succeed.
5
I always find my inner strength when in difficult situations. I perform well under stress.
5
I am comfortable in my skin, and I feel a great connection to self.
5
I am compassionate and very generous if the need is genuine.
4
I believe honesty is the ultimate kindness.
5
I am good at seeing what needs to be done, and I want it done yesterday.
5
I am an effective communicator.
4
When I fail at something, I take responsibility and I do everything I can to fix it.
5
When I commit to a project or person, I am very loyal.
5
I am easily offended by people with inappropriate behavior and bad form.
4
I have a dry and sometimes sarcastic sense of humor.
5
I am a hard worker, and I expect others to work hard too.
5
I enjoy doing powerful kickboxing and karate-like movements when exercising.
3
I find it difficult to relax.
5
Typical problems for Woods
I can easily lose my temper.
3
I can be judgmental and critical of others.
4
I can be very stubborn and stuck in my ways.
5
I can be uncompromising.
5
I tend to see what’s wrong instead of what’s right.
4
I can be sharp-tongued.
5
It is difficult for me to delegate.
5
I can become addicted to my work.
5
I can believe that I am better than everyone else.
5
I hate to lose.
5
I have a point of no return with people.
5
I become very frustrated if I am limited from stating my opinion.
5
If I am not allowed to express my anger, I can explode.
4
I get irritated if someone tries to slow me down. I have things that need to get done.
5
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Fire

Are you a Fire?

Parameter
Score from 1 to 5
Tags
Panic
1
Under stress I experience the following
Dehydration
1
Confusion
1
Scatteredness
1
Perspiration
4
Nervousness
3
Anxiety
4
Insecurity
2
Hypersensitivity
1
I love sharing food.
1
In General
I am intuitive.
3
I love a good story—even if it isn’t true.
2
I can talk people into whatever I believe in.
2
I feel joy and I express it through the way I move and speak.
1
I express unconditional love.
1
I usually feel very warm toward others.
1
I like people and I want to be around them.
4
I am enthusiastic about life and whatever is happening.
4
Pleasure has a stronger pull than getting my work done.
1
I am emotionally responsive to people.
1
I love physical contact and I initiate it.
2
Loud music usually doesn’t bother me; it just makes me want to move and dance.
3
I am comfortable being the center of attention.
1
I choose stimulating environments in which to travel and play.
5
Being onstage or in the limelight really energizes me.
2
It is easy for me to share my positive feelings.
2
I love talking about what I love.
3
I am often the life of the party.
2
I like living in this moment right now and I celebrate it!
1
I laugh and giggle without inhibition.
2
I see humor in all aspects of life.
2
I thoroughly enjoy receiving.
2
I never take things too personally.
4
I tend to talk loudly and laugh loudly.
2
When I meet people, it is easy for me to be intimate with them.
3
If people are angry, I can melt them and make them forget why they were angry.
2
I love having high expectations, even if things don’t work out well in the end.
4
I am upbeat and optimistic, even when things don’t look so good.
2
I absolutely love celebrations, holidays, and gatherings.
3
Feeling panic is very familiar.
1
I avoid negativity and I make light of difficult situations.
4
I am spontaneous, optimistic, and energetic.
2
I am prone to exaggeration.
1
I am empathetic.
2
I never analyze enthusiasm.
2
My heart is broken one moment and fixed the next.
1
When I sit, it isn’t for long. I like moving.
1
I walk or dance with a lot of zeal—skipping, bouncing, and lots of funky dance moves!
1
I like high-energy exercise—Zumba, aerobics, and running!
1
I speak with enthusiasm and can sound as though I’m laughing or smiling through my words.
1
My attention can jump all over the place; I have trouble staying focused.
1
Typical problems for fires
I can become hysterical when overwhelmed.
1
I can get nervous exhaustion from spreading myself out to too many people.
5
I can get very scattered and become completely disorganized.
1
I can work myself into a frenzy.
1
I panic when others lose energy, and I furiously stoke their fire.
1
Under stress, my words can become chaotic and sound like gibberish.
2
I get bored with slow events and slow people.
1
I sometimes cannot separate my own thoughts and feelings from those of another person.
1
I am sometimes in love with more than one person.
2
I compulsively live for parties and celebrations.
1
I can be addicted to love, sex, and spirituality.
2
I panic when there’s an unexpected demand on me; it can confuse me.
1
I feel I am much too accommodating to what the other person wants in a relationship.
1
I have a very hard time saying no.
1
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Earth

Are you an Earth?

Parameter
Score from 1 to 5
Tags
Worry
2
Under stress I experience the following
Feeling of being overwhelmed
2
Self-blame
2
Indecisiveness
1
Hopelessness
1
Lack of focus
1
Tendency to get very emotional
1
Confusion
1
Uncertainty
1
I love spending time with my family.
2
In General
I love having children and/or pets around.
1
I love the idea of pregnancy, adoption, and being around moms-to-be.
1
I truly want the very best for everyone and I will go out of my way to help them.
2
I am glad to be relied upon for reassurance and help.
4
I enjoy my social circle of activity. I love my friends.
5
I like being the center of my family, a person the others can lean on for support.
3
I want disputes to be settled and everyone to feel content.
5
I accept all people unconditionally.
1
I create comfort for everyone.
2
I am accessible to my friends.
4
I am very loyal and will be there for anyone in need.
2
I am very diplomatic.
1
I have great empathy for what others are going through.
2
I give people the benefit of the doubt.
2
Meeting and mingling with people I don’t know is easy for me, and I enjoy it.
3
If someone has an endearing quality, I immediately want to be around them.
2
If someone is hurting, I often feel it is my responsibility to make her feel better.
1
If someone feels left out, I often feel it is my responsibility to make him feel included.
2
Everyone confides secrets and stories to me.
3
Thoughts, feelings, and food seem interconnected.
1
I serve others and help them in their transitions.
3
I devote myself to people who love me even if I don’t love them.
1
I don’t like change.
1
I enjoy activities like cooking, gardening, homemaking, sewing, woodworking, and crafts.
1
My home is very warm, and in it there is a comfortable place to sit for everyone.
1
I would never humiliate or expose another person publicly.
5
I support loved ones even when I don’t agree with them.
2
I get really comfortable by kicking off my shoes and snuggling in.
1
When I walk, dance, or move, I often do it with a lyrical sway.
1
I like exercise in which I can be with friends or a group of people in a noncompetitive atmosphere.
1
I speak with a sweet tone that can resemble singing a lullaby.
1
I don’t want to take sides.
1
Almost more than anything else, I want people to take care of each other.
1
I squirrel away food just to be sure.
1
I enjoy bringing food, gifts, or treats to parties and gatherings, especially if I make them myself.
1
When people ask me questions, I feel obligated to answer, even if I’m uncomfortable doing so.
3
I often find myself saying “I’m sorry” even if something isn’t really my fault.
2
I am not competitive.
1
I sometimes wonder who will take care of me.
1
I often give money or personal possessions to help people out of difficult situations.
1
I keep my problems to myself.
3
I take on other people’s burdens.
2
I feel sluggish and defeated when I am overcommitted to people in need.
2
I tend to overworry.
2
I can smother people.
2
I can meddle in other people’s business.
1
I am overprotective.
1
I get overextended in my efforts to be a friend or counselor.
3
I struggle with boundaries between business and friendship.
2
I tend to collect stuff, or hoard, because things comfort me.
1
Sugar and/or carbohydrates satisfy me like a heroin fix.
1
I can get resentful after doing so much for people, even though it was my choice.
1
I can feel sorry for myself if people aren’t loving me enough or in the right way.
1
I have a tendency to gain weight easily.
2
I often keep the truth to myself if I think it will cause hurt feelings.
1
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Metal

Are you a Metal?

Parameter
Score from 1 and 5
Tags
Sudden sleepiness
2
Under stress I experience the following
Inability to have fun
5
A need to be the master
4
Respiratory difficulties
5
Constipation
3
A critical attitude
4
Emotional iciness
5
Aloofness
5
Rigidity
5
My personal lifestyle is orderly and simple.
5
In General
I control my environment.
5
I find what is off-kilter and strive to slowly transform it.
5
I hold myself and others to the highest standards.
5
I like everyone I work with to follow proper protocol.
5
I like systematic tasks that require logic.
5
I think of myself as an exemplary human being.
5
I avoid conflict.
3
I can be very long-winded and I don’t get to the point quickly.
3
I am very comfortable not doing anything and just being mindful of the space I am in.
3
I analyze joy and question enthusiasm.
5
Integrity and excellence are extremely important to me.
5
I am self-contained and intellectually independent.
5
I am not an overseer of other people’s lives and I don’t meddle in their affairs.
5
When someone has more competence than I do, I can accept their expertise.
5
Ethics and reason have more pull for me than pleasure and fun.
5
I wait my turn, I take my time, and then I state my opinions precisely with little emotion.
5
I get rid of what I don’t need and my emotions are not tied to my personal possessions.
5
I am correct and fair.
5
I hold myself back when it comes to expressing my feelings.
5
When I speak, I speak softly.
3
I often sit still and straight with excellent posture.
3
When I walk, dance, or move I seem to calmly glide.
3
For exercise I am drawn to fluid movement like yoga, Tai Chi, and ballet.
3
Sometimes I forget to eat.
5
I am not easily swayed or influenced to change course, even by failure.
5
I don’t have a lot of keepsakes like love letters or items that evoke nostalgia.
5
I am aware of time but finishing my tasks is more important than being timely.
5
I hunger for what seems to be an unattainable spiritual connection.
5
I sometimes feel incapable of letting myself go.
5
I often feel grief over life.
3
People have accused me of being holier-than-thou.
5
I crave distance and solitude, yet I want meaningful relationships.
5
I do well in jobs where I can work alone or one-on-one; I don’t do well in customer service.
5
I believe that less is more.
5
I don’t understand the importance of trinkets and mementos.
5
I have a hard time believing that unabashed happiness is real.
5
I am uncomfortable with clutter and “shelf pollution.”
5
I follow rules and protocols and feel no reason to break them.
5
I believe that to connect with people, words are not always needed.
5
I do what is honorable, and I don’t need to be acknowledged in return.
5
I can be very patient. I am not comfortable with rushing.
5
I isolate myself from people to get to my work.
5
Typical problems for Metal
I rank people by how much quality they have.
5
I can be arrogant.
5
I can be indifferent and dismissing.
5
I can be inappropriately formal and stiff.
5
I can be nitpicky.
4
I continue to work doggedly at something even when it isn’t successful for me or anyone else.
3
I analyze things to death.
4
I can be dogmatic and calmly stubborn.
4
I am often described as aloof and distant.
5
I cannot switch easily from intellectual projects to human encounters.
5
I can get stuck in the details in my head, preventing me from seeing the big picture.
3
I am inhibited and don’t feel free in my body.
5
I can be insensitive.
5